Understanding The Universal Laws

Stand Your Ground: The Laws of Attraction In Action

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I came across this blog I had written a few years ago and ironically, it’s in total sync with today’s podcast, “How well do you know yourself?” I was browsing the isles of my favorite clothing stores.  In fact, today is my designated, thank you for being you Wendy and all that you do for you day.  And for that I’m giving back to myself day.  What this translates to is I’m going to shop till I drop for whatever I want.   So, I’m browsing the isles looking at some, hmm, how do I say this?  Really uuuugly stuff and I can’t but help over hear the conversation between the extremely peppy sales assistant and a new customer to the store. The assistant is seriously digging through the shirt isle.  Ladies, you know the one I mean, the side wall […]

Stop Trying To Fix Them

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One of the most oppressive things that you can do to yourself is own someone else’s crap! And this is what you may find yourself doing on a regular basis; by trying to fix other people’s crappy life situations. And as a result you wind up in part ownership of the negativity that is going on in their lives.   For a variety of reasons you may do this, but the main one is that we all think, based on our past experiences, wisdom, knowledge, skill etc that we can fix it.  That is fix whatever has gone wrong with the “fixee’s”  life. The irony here is that I can’t, you can’t, we can’t.  You cannot fix a single thing pertaining to someone else. They have to “fix it” for themselves. Good God, most of us are challenged with straightening our […]

Starting My Life Over Again

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When your life comes to a grinding halt it’s usually associated with the loss of someone or something.  The feelings of loss could be as a result of a death, a divorce, a drifting away.  Out growing people, places and things or the thing that fit so perfectly before is no longer a good fit.  Whatever the cause your reaction is one in which you have experienced loss.   In the pain of that loss you have reacted in a way that it has shut you off or shut you down. The fact that you are still breathing means that there is still life left in you, and although you may be down you are not out.  As long as you are physically breathing, life will gather momentum and demand that you consciously participate in the direction you want to go in.  […]

The Power of Mindfulness Being Taught To Children In School

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This is a wonderful practice for children. It something I believe that parents, grandparents, siblings, guardians, teachers, preachers, daycare providers, uncles, aunties, doctors, nurses etc anyone who has interaction with children should be able to teach or at the very least offer continuity of a practice already learnt. For the spiritual and metaphysical communities who meditate and use “simple breathing techniques” we are familiar with the power that this has to support us in governing our reactions and actions to life. An action gets reaction and so on. so breaking the cycle with a simple breathing technique is a skill these children will have access to throughout their lives. I’m also a huge advocate of each one reach one, so each one can teach one. And this is what is happening across the world with children who are being taught […]

How Are You Choosing To Look At Your Life?

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Our lives are really amazing! You get to choose the filter from which you view your life from.  What do I mean by that?  You’ve heard of the phrase “looking at life through rose colored glasses?” The basic definition:  people choose to see things as being better than they really are. So what’s wrong with that?  Actually, nothing is wrong with choosing to take an optimistic view, a realistic optimistic view, of your situation, as long as it is going to move forward, allowing your current circumstance to support you in getting what you want. However, when things in your life are going radically wrong, which for most of us they are apt to do and you choose to put on your rose colored glasses, you are choosing to do NOTHING to improve your situation.  By ignoring obvious facts and […]

Unleash Your Power To Manifest With Forgiveness

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You may be wondering why you can’t seem to get any traction on manifesting what you want in your life; from relationships to financial stability.  From health to wealth, love, career, fame and fortune… you name it.  Everything seems to be going fine, like it always does.  Then like it always does, everything starts to unravel or it crashes and goes up in flames. Or the thing you want is within your reach and your fingers can’t quite grasp it.  “Yet another spectacular, epic failure!”  Or is it? Could it be that with all the meditations, affirmations, visualizations, following up on leads and all the things that you are doing to support your own success, could it be that you have missed something out?  Could that something be fundamental to your ability to move forward in the direction that you […]

We Still Carry These Innate Childhood Traits

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Have you notice that children are so, so, so excited about life? Everything has a major wow factor.   I marvel at their ability to forgive, or let go and simply move on.  While an experience, whether good or bad will always be a memory, children have the uncanny ability not to let the memory of “that” experience get in the way of living and  loving. Wow! Was I like this once upon a time?  Were you? There is a purity and honesty in the fact that children either like you or they don’t.  Either way, they’re plugged into their own Personal GPS and are listening to their inner guidance.  What’s amazing to me is that children don’t need to dig, justify or find a reason for what they feel, for them, it just “is.”  When did I lose that trait?  […]

Can Anyone Tell Me Where Exactly God Is?

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Click link to join us live http://bit.ly/whereisgodlocated  or call in 646727-2759 Show airs live Wednesday 3/15/17 @ 1:00pm PST   You can also download this episode and more at iTunes. This is a question that believers and non believers have asked themselves for as long as man has been in existence.  Where exactly is God? There are raging debates about the existence of God; who, what and where God is located.  And yet, we have been told categorically God is everywhere, within you, in heaven, in the Universe…in that rock or piece of carved wood, above you, below you and everywhere in between. These questions have given rise to a global trillion-dollar self-help industry, and have kept the zillion dollar traditional church industry/ministries in business. From New Age to Evangelic Ministries and everything in between, including Wiccan and Paganism all claim […]

I’m Not Broken I’m Not Damaged And I Don’t Need To Be Fixed

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Click link to join us live http://bit.ly/iamnotbroken  or call in 646-727-2759 When things go wrong in life, as they are apt to do, people naturally experience setbacks.  Sometimes this setback literally means that they hit rock bottom.  Sometimes the rug is pulled from under them and other times it feels like they have been render in two.  If you have experienced your very own personal setback and hit bottom or have been rented in two, it doesn’t mean that you are broken, damaged and or in need of fixing.  What it might mean for you is a fresh start with an excellent foundation to build on.  It’s all about your choices and your perceptions. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what we can do when things […]

Am I Doing The Right Thing: Working At What I’m Good At But It’s Not My Passion?

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Click the link to listen to our live podcast Am I Doing The Right Thing: Working At What I’m Good At But It’s Not My Passion? or call in 646-727-2759 Is what you are doing in life your passion?  Or is what you’re doing how you make money? The distinction between the two is important. There is a huge difference between the two.  And I can hear you asking, “But, can’t it be both?”  Actually, no, it can’t.  Many would disagree and disagree venomously, yet the Universal Law of Space clearly states that no two things can occupy the same space”at the same time.”  Many people have missed out on living their dream life because they have chosen not to pursue their passion.  “Get a real job,” they say. ”And do your passion on the side, you know, because artists […]