Understanding Choice


Aromatherapy Diffusion In A Confined Space

January 2016 at day care in Idaho, fire fighters were called out because the director of the center thought that the children and staff where suffering from carbon monoxide poisoning. What had transpired was an overdose of essential oils.  Can that happen?  Oh yeah it can; particularly if people don’t know how to use the oils safely. As a master aromatherapist, I have seen a rapid increase in incidences like this one. When using essential oils in confined spaces, such as a car or room without ventilation or poor ventilation or even a room with a mass of people, it is vitally important that the right essential oils be used. Within such confine spaces, it might be best to use the more volatile essential oils or e.oils with top notes. This basically means that they dissipate very quickly.   Also, having […]


What Is A Soulmate?

Major thrills, chills and heady excitement, that at times can feel almost overwhelming is what many men and women experience at the inception of a new relationship. They are both on a heightened sense of alert and stimulate the body to create a mind blowing cocktail of dopamine, norepinephrine and phenylethylamine, mixed with surges of adrenaline and testosterone.  This literally produces the physical response of chills or at the very least butterflies in the stomach. Added to this both men and women are earnestly looking for the answer to that age-old question, “could this be the one?  Is this my “soulmate?” The general view of a “soulmate” is an intimate, loving relationship or partnership, in which two people are bonded by a deep connection that seems to defy any logical explanation.  There is a simple rightness about being together, because […]


Is Your Mental, Emotional, Physical And Spiritual House In Order?

Click here to join the live conversation or call in 646-727-2759 Far too often in our lives, in spite of doing “the work needed,” the things that we want to manifest, don’t.  For all intent and outward purposes we are doing all the right things.  Affirming and or praying to conceptualize our vision into a habitual thought form. We are engaging our emotion via our five senses as Dr. Wendy has suggested that we do.  And yet, we get this close, to our desired manifestation that we can taste it and see the golden flecks of success in its eyes.  And then, chaos ensues and it slips away from our grasp.  With the resilience that is an intrinsic part of our ability as humans to continue to thrive, we shrug off our misadventures saying, “it wasn’t for me or it […]


Am I Asking The Right Questions of God?

Click here to join live or call in 646-727-2759 We talk to God.  We pray to God.  We beseech God, rale, cry and scream at God.  We walk with God. We have other people liaise with God on our behalf.  We accept the blessings bestowed upon us by God, and readily reject that which we call accursed.   We do all of this on a daily basis and, yet, are we asking the right questions of God?  The current state of your life, your health, wealth, finances and your relationship with self and others will answer that question for you.  Talking with God isn’t something that you can learn, as in how to pray or recite an affirmation.  All that is good and has its place in our spiritual evolvement, yet, talking to God isn’t something that you learn; it’s something […]


Your Life Is A Contractual Agreement With God

Click here to join live or listen to archives or call in on 646-727-2759 Have you ever wondered about the people in your life, especially those, who to put it mildly, you can’t abide to be around or being around them drives you to drink?  We make agreements with other souls, who are members of what is called our soul cluster and we are members of theirs.  The idea is that we’ll support each other to attain our highest soul growth, by what appears to be, any means necessary.   We are all in this dimension under a spiritual contract. And it’s a contract of choice that has been made of our choosing with the assistance of God and our celestial helpers.  This contractual agreement, we make prior to incarnating or being born into this life.  Our agreement is binding.  It’s […]


Enough No More Excuses They Muddle The Laws of Attraction

Click here to join us life or call in 646-727-2759 Did you know your ability to use the Laws of Attraction to manifest what you want for your life, whether consciously or unconsciously is negatively impacted when you make an excuse? We all have used excuses for a myriad of reasons to communicate what’s going on with us. Sometimes it’s to explain away a situation that impacted you that you had no control over; a ten car pileup on the freeway that made you late for an appointment. You may use excuses as a way to apologize, or to ask for forgiveness, to explain something away and or as a way of justification. The underlying energy that is prevalent in an excuse, is to justify our behavior, because, inadvertently, our action has impacted someone else negatively. There is another side […]


Are You Asking Yourself The Right Questions?

Attractioners, this is an important thought 4 your week. You see, the questions you are asking yourself are currently giving you the answers that you’re acting on, thereby creating the life that you are living. So what questions are you asking yourself are must be designed to support yourself in getting the answers for the life that you are wanting to live? The first Law in the Laws of Attraction is choice.  Your vision or what you are wanting to manifest is your choice, so all questions must be created around that… your vision and what it looks like to create it.    “What does it look like to take the very first step in creating your vision?”


No More Excuses

An excuse is a choice NOT to do what you know you must do, or take the action needed to support what you are wanting to manifest in your life. It’s important that you know and understand the difference between the two. 1) An excuse, is you looking for a reason not to do what you said you WILL do. 2) A choice, not to do what you said you WILL do, is you making a conscious change, because you’ve found a better way.   Your inability to understand this nuance can undermine your ability to attract what you are wanting for your life. So the next time you don’t do something you said that you WILL do, ask yourself if you’ve just found a better way, or are you looking for an excuse.


91 Year Old Entrepreneur Successfully Enters Spice Trade

This is an amazing story that is filled with many beautiful poignant moments. From an Attractioner’s perspective, he knew what he wanted without a doubt. He understood the reasoning behind what he wanted and that created a foundation for him to build upon. I’m not lost to the fact that his creation keeps his relationship with his wife very much alive. However, that too supported him is seeing cHarissa moving and evolving, living and breathing. He’s vision for the tasty Moroccan spice, transcends his life expectancy he’s creating a legacy that will change the world. Or at the very least encourage and inspire people to know that age is not a factor, when you are wanting to manifest something into your life. Fun, passion, clarity, choice, right thinking and action, right action are all contributing factors for the Laws of […]


As 2016 is heralded in, this is one of the most important questions to ask yourself! When you ask this question, ask it in the first person narrative and then answer with your Truth, with what’s authentically right for you. Once you have done this know that you have taken the first step in creating the life that you have been born to live. Your life is all about the choices that you make, the decisions you choose to act on, the thoughts you choose to impact your life. If the scope of the thought for this week creates to many moving parts or it’s to big, then change it to “what are you wanting for your life in this moment?” Start there! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/ Website:     https://www.thelawsofattractioninaction.com Blab:           https://blab.im/wendydearborne Vimeo:        https://vimeo.com/drwendydearborne Twitter:       https://twitter.com/wendydearborne Instagram: https://instagram.com/drwendydearborne/ Blog Talk […]