Understanding Pain Mental Emotional & Physical
Pain, all types of pain are our greatest impetus for change!
Dr Wendy Dearborne
Over Here And Over There The Impact
I was talking to someone recently and during the conversation, they were speaking about how they disliked, no it was beyond that, it was how they hated this person over here who we’ll call person X. They spoke passionately, at length and in detail about what’s wrong with person X. They basically said that the person needs to be dead, because they are taking up valuable space and air. They then went on to speak about another person who we’ll call person Y. They spoke of them in warm, glowing compassionate terms. They went on to say that they know Y is probably worse than X. But they just couldn’t even stand to look at person X. This left me feeling a tad baffled. So, I did what I do best. I listened. Then asked a couple of questions for […]
Choosing To Actively Look For The Good
There is a saying that we Londoners have, “sometimes, I just need a good ol’ swear-up”. Or, another saying that we Jamaicans have is, “mi jus haffi cuss tu bad wod”. Given that both are my heritage, both worked well for me in this scenario. I decided to clipper cut my hair. While I can still make magic happen with a pair of shears and a comb, clipper cutting was never really my forte. With that in mind, picture this. I switched my clippers on, and I happily, and confidently cut my hair, magically pretending that clipper cutting IS my forte. All the while living in the moment of, of faking it until you make it. My hair cut turned out par for the course and I was happy with it. I finished up, swept up, sanitized my implements, and […]
God Needs To Know What You Want
I know that you have heard me say this many times and in many different ways, God doesn’t make choices for you. Only you can do that! God the Universal Creator of ALL Things will present you with different opportunities, and endless possibilities that are all designed to support you in manifesting what it is that you say you want. You may even experience getting a spiritual nudge in the “right” direction. But even with that, you have to walk the walk, that you are talking. Ironically, once you start your walk, God will be walking with you every step of the way. And if you fall or if you falter, God will support you in getting back on track, if that is your desired choice. As I have told countless people. God has never allowed you to drop, even […]
Every Obstacle Leads Somewhere
Good morning Attractioners, Life really is all about your perception of it, and then what you choose to do with that thought process. No matter what happens, try to think in terms of life happening for you, verses life happening to you. That way of thinking isn’t easy by any stretch of the imagination. And to get to that point can sometimes take years. Yet, this way of thinking will support you to eventually recognize that every obstacle in your way, has been established for you, by you, to set you on the correct pathway. it’s not easy to see new possibilities when you are experiencing mental, emotional, and physical pain. But, they are there, waiting for you to claim them, even if you are unable to see them…yet. Claim your new possibility today!
Wanting Someone To Change Won’t Make It Happen
Most don’t realize that the change they are wanting to see in that person must start with themselves. Or put another way, the change you want to see must first start with you. And yes, I can hear you saying, “Wait! What! I’m not the one with the problem.” Okay, I’ll bite. You don’t have the behavioral issue, but you do have a problem with “their” behavior. This is what I call understanding the nuances of life.
The Amazing Miraculous Miracles Of Life
That which we call a miracle, that which we perceive as miraculous, always needs a vehicle for the miracle to be demonstrated through.
Which Eyes Are You Using?
You, like me and many others have been taught that seeing is believing and as a result of this off kilter teaching, you try to manifest and live your life in this way. And you continue to do so even though time after time, after time, you’re shown categorically that this way of manifesting doesn’t work. It can’t work. It won’t work simply because your life is an internal manifestation with an external expression. Your life is always lived internally first and manifested or brought into form second. Consciously manifesting is intrinsic work that is carried out internally, first. And when the desired manifestation moves into form, or becomes tangible, it then becomes extrinsic work that can only be carried out externally. This is also true of unconscious manifesting too. Takeaway: Perhaps we need to take the phase seeing […]
Nine Years Later And I Still Don’t Feel The Need To Ask Why?
WHY? The Taboo Word In Coaching! As a coach, intrinsic or otherwise sometimes to get to the heart of the matter you just have to ask that age-old loaded question “why.” There are several different coaching styles that I have studied and they all say the same thing, “never ask a client why” as it puts the client on the defensive and of course shuts them down, effectively cutting communication, trust and new and forward thinking. As a spiritual counselor, the word “why” was used, not frequently, but used none-the-less at points during a session. You can imagine during my training as a coach, and I freely admit that at first it was hard…very hard not to use and ask that three-letter word…WHY! Eventually I got it. I intellectualized it before I realized it and could integrate it into my world. […]
Are You Living In Your Expectations Of God?
Yesterday’s meme asked the question, what are your expectations of God The Universal Creator, or whomever your chosen deity is? When you understand what your expectation or expectations are, you can then align yourself with them, and always live within those expectations. Meaning, you can live your life according to your expectations or within the parameters that you have established, knowing that you can add to them as you evolve. Eg. If your expectation is that God will always manifest that which you ask for, then you can live in the expectation of that happening. It also means that you won’t engage in sabotaging self-talk. You asked God for the money to pay…you fill in the blank. But you continue to worry about where you’ll get the money from and how you’re going to make this payment on time. If […]