I was talking to someone recently and during the conversation, they were speaking about how they disliked, no it was beyond that, it was how they hated this person over here who we’ll call person X. They spoke passionately, at length and in detail about what’s wrong with person X. They basically said that the person needs to be dead, because they are taking up valuable space and air.
They then went on to speak about another person who we’ll call person Y. They spoke of them in warm, glowing compassionate terms. They went on to say that they know Y is probably worse than X. But they just couldn’t even stand to look at person X. This left me feeling a tad baffled. So, I did what I do best. I listened. Then asked a couple of questions for my clarity, as it is never a good idea to assume what someone is saying.
I asked, “So let me get this straight, you’ve never met X nor Y? And yet, you hate this person over here, X, so much so, that you would energetically align yourself with that person over there, Y, knowing without a doubt, that they are just as bad, if not worse than the person over here, X?” I received my answer and got total clarity. And the answer was yes to all my questions! Categorically they would do that. Now what this person has chosen to do and say is all to the highest good. I honor their opinion and expression. What is alarming to me, as a choice expert is that this person doesn’t even realize that their attitude toward this entire situation has negation energy stamped all over it. Negation impedes manifestations.
It’s amazing to me how many people are missing their blessings, because they talk all over themselves. They don’t realize that everything is connected and has a knock-on effect.
People like to compartmentalize their lives, not understanding that each and every compartment interfaces with another. It’s like a gigantic jig saw puzzle. This interfacing is paramount. You see, each compartment that we create forms an interlocking network, that isn’t unilateral, it’s highly dependent. Not in a co-dependent kinda way. But it forms an authentic symbiotic relationship. They Harmonistically co-exist.
We create mental compartments to store information. This can be things that we have experienced that we deem, both good and or bad. Mental compartmentalization serves multiple functions. Primarily compartments are created for storage, access, and organization. They are also used to quiet or declutter the mind and support intentional focus.
People assume because they are meditating, affirming, praying, going to church, proselytizing, tithing, volunteering, donating time, money, skills, and resources etc., that they get a hall pass for negative or negating behaviors. By their guesstimation, a hall pass should, somehow magically irradicate all the negative stuff they are doing over here, that has the potential to block their desired manifestations, realizations, or blessings over there. Or at the very least, they feel that the hall pass should takedown major hurdles that are standing in the way of their desired demonstration.
It’s important to understand that what you do, what you say, what you think, what you believe, and what you know, what you imagine, what you visualize touches every facet of your life. It’s your living breathing reality. What is another reality that has a lethal stinger attached is that we DON’T get hall passes in this life; we only get choices!
Once again, we, as a people, fail epically to realize that what we say, think, feel, believe or do over here, impacts our manifestations and blessings over there. We erroneously think of our lives in unilateral terms. When in reality we are living on a manifesting linear continuum, that doesn’t have unilateral contingencies. What do I mean by that? Action=Reaction and that will always stand. You can’t be as negative as all get out in one part of your life and then manifest the desires of your heart in the other part of your life. It doesn’t work like that.
Let’s look at it this way, you don’t like cats. If you are being cruel and unkind to your neighbor’s cat, then this has a knock-on effect that impacts your dreams manifesting. Or your prayers being answered, or your blessings being blocked. It’s fine if you don’t like cats. But to choose to be cruel, unkind, and even harmful is a totally different thing. It creates a different vibe that will invoke the Law of Negation.
How to overcome this? Choose to take a hard raw authentic look at yourself and ask yourself if you are behaving in true integrity in all areas of your life. Or are you being judgmental, passing the blame, taking accolades that are not yours? Do you lie to yourself and to others? Are you making false promises and or making claims that are not yours? Are you being cruel, harsh, petty, bigoted, racist, hateful, mean, spiteful, angry, manipulative, Machiavellian, mendacious, sexist, vengeful, a tyrant, controlling or inflexible? Are you unforgiving, unkind, joyless, ungrateful, uncompassionate, or disinterested?
Sometimes we get on a roll, and as a result of that we are not conscious of the far-reaching impact, what we are doing or saying is going to have on us. Here’s a technique that can support you in reframing and refocusing your energy on what you want, verses what you don’t. Verbally instruct “self,” that’s right yourself, that when you’re engaging in these types of behaviors, or behaviors that you feel and think are negative, instruct your subconscious mind to give your conscious mind a gentle nudge. This nudge is designed to bring to your conscious awareness to STOP engaging in negative or negating behaviors, self-talk, or conversations. Then channel that energy you were using for negative and negating behaviors into affirming what you want to manifest for your life.