Understanding Choice

How do We Help The People We Love Get Through Hard Times In Life?

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In life, we want our loved ones to be happy, whole, capable and complete. This is a natural human response. We want to see them healthy, wealthy, content and wise, living a life that is a pure joy to behold and inspiring to be a part of.  However, in the real world it can be gut wrenching, mentally and emotionally disturbing and a little soul crushing, watching as their lives unfold one crisis after another. You see, wanting what you want for them and trying to make them do your bidding, no matter how forcefully or gently it’s put across, usually leads to the dissolution of relationships and friendships.  The bottom line is simply this, I can’t want something that I deem best for you to happen in your life, and expect it to happen, if you don’t want the […]

Day 7: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

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Day 7 Welcome to day 7 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we start the manifestation process.  Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Review your lists three times daily – morning, noon and night until your manifestation is complete.  Review your desired manifestation list first and then your gratitude list. Let’s Get Started 1: Upon awakening, use your simple breathing technique to connect and set your intentional focus. 2: Review-read and don’t skip anything your desired manifestation list, followed by your gratitude list. 3: At midday (your midday) review your lists again. 4: Before you go to sleep review your lists again.  If you read or watch television before going to sleep, the last thing you do is to read your lists. 5: Do not tell nor share this with anyone.  This […]

How To Stop Struggling With Self Praise And Accept It

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Many people don’t realize that their ability to consciously manifest what they want in life is being hampered by their inability to receive and accept praise. You know the “attaboy or attagirl,” that people give when you have accomplished something. The inability to do this for self is a serious one. It has the atomic potential to undermine everything that you want, and wreck everything that you have. The Universal Law of Acceptance speaks to the energy of whether you believe you are worthy and deserving of the thing you have asked the Universe to bring into creation for you. You see, Attractioners, it’s understanding this nuance that makes all the difference in your world. To the Universal Creator, acceptance or non-acceptance is still, acceptance. Once again, you get to choose how you use the universal Law of Acceptance. Your […]

Wow! I Didn’t See That Coming

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In order for you to get what you want in life and experience things that leave you feeling whole, capable and complete, happy, accepted, in control, self-empowered, self-inspired and self-motivated, you must understand how the Universal Laws of Attraction work. And then you must use them. I was talking to my hubby, Dee, about this earlier. People condemn others for ____ you fill in the blank, not realizing that this is a form of self-expression…you just don’t say it…you actually become it. And so, when Universal Order is established, and the condemner now becomes the condemned, OMG! they are up in arms. Telling everyone who will listen, “How could this happen to me?  I didn’t see that coming!“ Really! Like really!? How could it not? You see, you can’t hate these people or things over here and not have hate […]

The Hyphen On Your Tombstone

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Weaving in and out of the headstones in St Mary’s cemetery located at Harrow-On-The-Hill was something that I did when I wanted to experience peace and quiet found in contemplation, rather than going inward into meditation. There is beautiful scenic tranquility found within that ancient Norman cemetery on the hill.  The walk from our home in West Harrow to the cemetery was several miles. And of course, to get to St Mary’s one had to climb a rather steep incline. While my history is a little sketchy, Wikipedia suggests that the church was built between 1087 – 1094 during the Middle Ages. It was in the late 1800’s that the original cemetery was closed for burials, making way for the newer grounds, in which people are still being laid to rest today. I’m sharing all of this with you to […]

Plants Got Feelings Too, Don’t They?

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There is a spirituality to be found within all foods that we consume, including plants. Fruit, vegetables, nuts, grains and legumes…so, don’t get it twisted! Attractioners, I’ve been here before. This blog isn’t about defending or condemning veganism, vegetarianism, pescatarianism or flexitarianism. Once again, it’s about the spirituality of food. Everything on the face of this earth is sentient, including plants. They feel and are able to perceive things and as a result will react accordingly to their environment. Did you know that plants protect their young? Don’t delude yourself into thinking that it’s only animals and we humans that have feelings and can show a range of emotions. You know that carrot, beet, celery stick and granny smith apple you juiced today? Well they felt the sharp blade of your butcher knife as you prepped them for the juicer. […]

Why Can’t I Get Over It & Move On?

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Letting go of people, places and things, hurts, grudges and feuds is one of the greatest challenges you will ever face in your life. Why? Because in some shape or form your needs, wants and desires have been minimized and then trampled into nothingness and that doesn’t sit well with you.  So, you do the “work” necessary to support you in your process of letting go.  Diligently, you do the affirmations, positive thinking, and the stern self-talk.  You’ve created your very own pep rally and finally you tell yourself you’re done, and over it.  And life feels normal again. And then voilà, along comes a button pusher to check you, letting you know you are still firmly in “its” grasp.  With that comes an emotional tsunami that adds additional layers and questions as to why can’t I just get over […]

What’s Standing In The Way Of Your Happiness?

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When asked the question “What’s standing in the way of your happiness?” many people can give a passionate monologue of all the things they feel are preventing their happiness from manifesting.  This is mainly attributed to other people who have done something or are doing things that prevent them from finding happiness. I will acknowledge everyone has a right to feel and does feel hurt, angry, disappointed, disillusioned, even stunned into doing nothingness as a result of a relationship or situation that has gone south. I’ve been there myself and expect that I will go there again.  Yet, with everything that has happened to you, it doesn’t give you the right to claim that people, places or things are standing in the way of your happiness.  That simply isn’t true! If you are making the claim that he or she, […]

Will You Pay The Price For What You Want?

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In life there is always a price to pay.  The question is, ”Are you willing to pay that price for what you want?”  Many people when asked this question assume that payment is in the form of money.  Cold, hot, hard soft cash!  There is another form of currency and it’s called spiritual currency.  It represents the intangible energies that we trade  much like money represents the tangibles we trade in.  You don’t get something for nothing, even if it appears that way.  What are you willing to give to get what you want? Listen to this weeks episode of My Life My Choice later today @1:00pm PST on Blog Talk Radio Website: https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Drwendydearbornecc Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/drwendydearborne Twitter: https://twitter.com/wendydearborne Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drwendydearborne/?hl=en <?php MWD_load_forms(array(“id” => 3)); ?>

Is Divine Intervention A Matter Of Faith?

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There are times in your life when you come face to face with a situation or problem that robs you of everything you have emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually of the energy to even draw your next breath.  Have you ever experienced this phenomenon? There are no words, there are no tears, there are no fears, just a blinding infinite nothingness and a numbness that lets you know you are alive and living by the Grace of autopilot.  It hurts to breathe.  It hurts to think.  It takes everything you have, and, I literally mean, everything that you have left inside of you, to marshal yourself to dig deep inside looking, searching, hoping and praying that you strike that vein of reserve energy that you weren’t sure existed. And yet as you were digging in the dark, you hoped that […]