Understanding Choice


Benefits of Adopting A Win-Win Attitude

Finding the win-win in any situation no matter how devastating can be done, if you choose to do that. It requires a conscious choice, effort and in some cases using the brute force discipline. You see this all over the media. Someone has experienced heart wrenching loss in the most heinous way. Yet they are able to re-calibrate and use that experience for the betterment of themselves and others.


The Power of Asking What If?

Let’s play the “what if game today” Picture this: You have all the money you need and more money than you can spend in this life time. Your children, family and friends, charities etc., will never want for anything that money can buy. You’re healthy and beyond wealthy.” My question to you is this, “what are you wanting to do with the rest of your life?” Your answer to this question gives you a clear indication as to what your true life’s passion is. This is where your energy, focus and attention and your intention must be placed…even if what you are passionate about appears to be far-fetched. The majority of us don’t listen to our intuitions, because of that reason. It sounds far-fetched. Yet we all have said, “I should have listened to myself ” and…meant it. Is there […]


The Importance of Reconnecting With What You Want

Good morning Attractioners. Have you reconnected “internally” with what you are wanting to manifest in your life? What I’m saying is have you touched base or checked in with yourself to see if anything has changed? This reevaluation process has the power to bring to your conscious awareness things that are in your subconscious mind.  Things that may need to be added or things that must be taken away. We are changing daily. Each morning when we arise, we are someone new. We have evolved into a different person based on our choices and the experiences we’ve had as a result of our choices; if you will, we are a new version of self. As a result of this, things that were important yesterday, no longer hold sway in our lives. So maybe with your desired manifestation the timing has […]


Taking Inspired Action

Attractioners, There’s a difference between taking action and taking “inspired” action. You can be doing a lot of busy work and getting nothing done. Or you can do a little work and accomplish a great amount. Inspired action is when you choose to take a course of action that has been designed by you, for you, to literally move you in the most expedient way to your desire goal or manifestation. Inspired action comes from your intuition, a gut feeling, a hunch or that knowing or that sense of rightness that you get, when considering what your next step is in your process. Inspired action comes from your intuition or an insight.  To experience an intuit or insightful event literally means to be given accurate information attained from sources unknown, that is specific to you, and only you. Inspired action […]


How do We Help The People We Love Get Through Hard Times In Life?

In life, we want our loved ones to be happy, whole, capable and complete. This is a natural human response. We want to see them healthy, wealthy, content and wise, living a life that is a pure joy to behold and inspiring to be a part of.  However, in the real world it can be gut wrenching, mentally and emotionally disturbing and a little soul crushing, watching as their lives unfold one crisis after another. You see, wanting what you want for them and trying to make them do your bidding, no matter how forcefully or gently it’s put across, usually leads to the dissolution of relationships and friendships.  The bottom line is simply this, I can’t want something that I deem best for you to happen in your life, and expect it to happen, if you don’t want the […]


Day 7: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 7 Welcome to day 7 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we start the manifestation process.  Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Review your lists three times daily – morning, noon and night until your manifestation is complete.  Review your desired manifestation list first and then your gratitude list. Let’s Get Started 1: Upon awakening, use your simple breathing technique to connect and set your intentional focus. 2: Review-read and don’t skip anything your desired manifestation list, followed by your gratitude list. 3: At midday (your midday) review your lists again. 4: Before you go to sleep review your lists again.  If you read or watch television before going to sleep, the last thing you do is to read your lists. 5: Do not tell nor share this with anyone.  This […]


How To Stop Struggling With Self Praise And Accept It

Many people don’t realize that their ability to consciously manifest what they want in life is being hampered by their inability to receive and accept praise. You know the “attaboy or attagirl,” that people give when you have accomplished something. The inability to do this for self is a serious one. It has the atomic potential to undermine everything that you want, and wreck everything that you have. The Universal Law of Acceptance speaks to the energy of whether you believe you are worthy and deserving of the thing you have asked the Universe to bring into creation for you. You see, Attractioners, it’s understanding this nuance that makes all the difference in your world. To the Universal Creator, acceptance or non-acceptance is still, acceptance. Once again, you get to choose how you use the universal Law of Acceptance. Your […]


Wow! I Didn’t See That Coming

In order for you to get what you want in life and experience things that leave you feeling whole, capable and complete, happy, accepted, in control, self-empowered, self-inspired and self-motivated, you must understand how the Universal Laws of Attraction work. And then you must use them. I was talking to my hubby, Dee, about this earlier. People condemn others for ____ you fill in the blank, not realizing that this is a form of self-expression…you just don’t say it…you actually become it. And so, when Universal Order is established, and the condemner now becomes the condemned, OMG! they are up in arms. Telling everyone who will listen, “How could this happen to me?  I didn’t see that coming!“ Really! Like really!? How could it not? You see, you can’t hate these people or things over here and not have hate […]


The Hyphen On Your Tombstone

Weaving in and out of the headstones in St Mary’s cemetery located at Harrow-On-The-Hill was something that I did when I wanted to experience peace and quiet found in contemplation, rather than going inward into meditation. There is beautiful scenic tranquility found within that ancient Norman cemetery on the hill.  The walk from our home in West Harrow to the cemetery was several miles. And of course, to get to St Mary’s one had to climb a rather steep incline. While my history is a little sketchy, Wikipedia suggests that the church was built between 1087 – 1094 during the Middle Ages. It was in the late 1800’s that the original cemetery was closed for burials, making way for the newer grounds, in which people are still being laid to rest today. I’m sharing all of this with you to […]