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Nine Years Later And I Still Don’t Feel The Need To Ask Why?

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WHY? The Taboo Word In Coaching! As a coach, intrinsic or otherwise sometimes to get to the heart of the matter you just have to ask that age-old loaded question “why.”  There are several different coaching styles that I have studied and they all say the same thing, “never ask a client why” as it puts the client on the defensive and of course shuts them down, effectively cutting communication, trust and new and forward thinking. As a spiritual counselor, the word “why” was used, not frequently, but used none-the-less at points during a session.  You can imagine during my training as a coach, and I freely admit that at first it was hard…very hard not to use and ask that three-letter word…WHY!   Eventually I got it.  I intellectualized it before I realized it and could integrate it into my world. […]

The Power of Mindfulness Being Taught To Children In School

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This is a wonderful practice for children. It something I believe that parents, grandparents, siblings, guardians, teachers, preachers, daycare providers, uncles, aunties, doctors, nurses etc anyone who has interaction with children should be able to teach or at the very least offer continuity of a practice already learnt. For the spiritual and metaphysical communities who meditate and use “simple breathing techniques” we are familiar with the power that this has to support us in governing our reactions and actions to life. An action gets reaction and so on. so breaking the cycle with a simple breathing technique is a skill these children will have access to throughout their lives. I’m also a huge advocate of each one reach one, so each one can teach one. And this is what is happening across the world with children who are being taught […]

6 Key Points To Making Your Relationships Stronger

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Before you can experience a loving, romantic and an intimate relationship, this applies to both physical, mental and emotional, you MUST be crystal clear on what you are wanting  to experience for yourself within a relationship. Here are six key points that can support you in making all your relationships stronger. Key point 1:  It’s not about how you want your partner to show up in the relationship; it’s about how you choose to show up in the relationship.   Your partner will always take his/her cue from you. To find this information, you have to have an adult, loving, brutally honest, authentic conversation with self, so you can determine what you want for you and go for it rather than fly by the seat of your pants.   You have to know what you want to experience for self within the […]

Hush: Your Intuition Has Something To Tell You

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Intuition:  Accurate insight and knowledge attained from sources unknown.  We all have access to our intuition, which means that we all have insight, accurate insight on the best choices to make for any given life situation. However, based on the fact that we as humans, tend to be afraid of the unknown, or we dislike being uncomfortable, we err on the side of caution and go with what we know or what feels good.  More often than not, this doesn’t serve our purpose well.  And in consciously using the Laws of Attraction, ignoring your intuitive directives will create a setback with our manifestation.  Can you get passed your fears and can you train yourself to use your intuition? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore those two […]