Dr Wendy Dearborne

Every Obstacle Leads Somewhere

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Good morning Attractioners, Life really is all about your perception of it, and then what you choose to do with that thought process.  No matter what happens, try to think in terms of life happening for you, verses life happening to you.  That way of thinking isn’t easy by any stretch of the imagination.  And to get to that point can sometimes take years. Yet, this way of thinking will support you to eventually recognize that every obstacle in your way, has been established for you, by you, to set you on the correct pathway. it’s not easy to see new possibilities when you are experiencing mental, emotional, and physical pain. But, they are there, waiting for you to claim them, even if you are unable to see them…yet. Claim your new possibility today!

Wanting Someone To Change Won’t Make It Happen

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Most don’t realize that the change they are wanting to see in that person must start with themselves.  Or put another way, the change you want to see must first start with you.  And yes, I can hear you saying, “Wait!  What!  I’m not the one with the problem.”  Okay, I’ll bite.  You don’t have the behavioral issue, but you do have a problem with “their” behavior.  This is what I call understanding the nuances of life. 

Which Eyes Are You Using?

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You, like me and many others have been taught that seeing is believing and as a result of this off kilter teaching, you try to manifest and live your life in this way.  And you continue to do so even though time after time, after time, you’re shown categorically that this way of manifesting doesn’t work.   It can’t work.  It won’t work simply because your life is an internal manifestation with an external expression.  Your life is always lived internally first and manifested or brought into form second.     Consciously manifesting is intrinsic work that is carried out internally, first.  And when the desired manifestation moves into form, or becomes tangible, it then becomes extrinsic work that can only be carried out externally.  This is also true of unconscious manifesting too. Takeaway:  Perhaps we need to take the phase seeing […]

Nine Years Later And I Still Don’t Feel The Need To Ask Why?

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WHY? The Taboo Word In Coaching! As a coach, intrinsic or otherwise sometimes to get to the heart of the matter you just have to ask that age-old loaded question “why.”  There are several different coaching styles that I have studied and they all say the same thing, “never ask a client why” as it puts the client on the defensive and of course shuts them down, effectively cutting communication, trust and new and forward thinking. As a spiritual counselor, the word “why” was used, not frequently, but used none-the-less at points during a session.  You can imagine during my training as a coach, and I freely admit that at first it was hard…very hard not to use and ask that three-letter word…WHY!   Eventually I got it.  I intellectualized it before I realized it and could integrate it into my world. […]

Are You Living In Your Expectations Of God?

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Yesterday’s meme asked the question, what are your expectations of God The Universal Creator, or whomever your chosen deity is?  When you understand what your expectation or expectations are, you can then align yourself with them, and always live within those expectations.  Meaning, you can live your life according to your expectations or within the parameters that you have established, knowing that you can add to them as you evolve.  Eg. If your expectation is that God will always manifest that which you ask for, then you can live in the expectation of that happening.  It also means that you won’t engage in sabotaging self-talk.  You asked God for the money to pay…you fill in the blank.  But you continue to worry about where you’ll get the money from and how you’re going to make this payment on time.   If […]

Manifesting: 8 Things To Support You

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Attractioners, I know all is going well in your world…simply because you are the creator of it.  The information in this short video is beyond powerful.  It has the potential to revolutionize your life and those around you…if you let it.  Life is all about choices and the consequences of those choices.  Or, if you will, actions and reactions, sowing and reaping.  This is how your life is created.  It is built one choice at a time.  The fact that we create our lives with each choice that we make is usually brought into full conscious awareness, when we have infringed or violated someone’s imposed law.  Or we have strayed into someone’s lane or we have don’t something that we have been told not to do.  Then we experience “the consequence of that choice or action.”  Sadly, from the cradle […]