Why Look Outside of Self For Answers


We spend a lot of time looking externally for what we think we want. That’s not to imply that you don’t know what you want, because without a doubt you do. And you want to know how you can tell this? Because when you get what you wanted, it’s spot on, or it’s not quite right, or you weren’t satisfied. And or the feeling was totally and utterly anticlimactic.

You can’t begin the search for what you want to manifest into your life by looking for it outside of self. Your life is an inside realization with an external manifestation. And no, this isn’t an oxymoron. It’s an immutable God given fact.

I can hear you say, “I know what I don’t want. But I don’t know what I do want.” Flip the script on what you don’t want, and it will tell you categorically what you do want. So, you do know. And that knowing can only come from within.

Knowing what you don’t want is tantamount to knowing what you do want. You see, everything in your life that is manifested or tangible, everything you can feel, see, taste, smell, and hear, is a constant in your life for several reasons. Let’s explore some of those reasons in a little more depth.

But before I do that, I want to briefly elaborate on what I mean by, “flip the script.” It simply means this, if you don’t want to drive a broken-down piece of junk; now flip the script by telling yourself the kind of car you do want to drive. You can get as in depth as you like. You see, consciously using that process of flipping the script will always tell you what you want at all times, even when you think you don’t know.

Let’s explore a few constant reasons:

1. To show you how powerful your words, thoughts and imaging’s are.

2. To provide you with a contrast, for what you have within your mind held up against what you’ve manifested.

3. To provide you with opportunities to continue to manifest by using your imagination, realization, proclamation, visualization, belief, faith, and gratitude.

4. You always have to go back inside of self, to check in with self to ensure that you have manifested what you want to experience.

Don’t get em twisted. You do this all day, every day. And will continue to do this until you draw your last breath. There is a Divine Flow and a Universal Order for everything that we do, and manifesting has Universal Laws and rules that govern that process. You will always be checking in with self to see if ‘self’ is happy with the manifested outcome.

So, I humbly suggest that you focus your intention on your inner wanting and the creation of that, so you can then set your attention to manifesting that experience in your life. Blessings to you and yours, Dr, Wendy Dearborne