Attractioners,
Sometimes, you have to go all the way through it, to get to where you want to be. There is an ol’ adage that simply states, “you’ve got to go through it, to get to it.”  That ol’ adage somewhat ambiguously alludes to the fact that going through it can sometimes be a struggle that leaves you feeling broken, bruised, bleeding, overwhelmed or underwhelmed, frozen and or in pain.   And yet, the miracle of what awaits you on the other side is worth everything, and I mean everything that you are going through.  “Going through it” is not transformational, but transmutational. 

Attractioners, you’re not being altered; you are being changed, because of what you have been through, and that struggle is real!  Let me elaborate.  You have a suit that needs to be altered.  The hem is taken up or the waist is taken in or let out.  This is transformation.   The same suit is cut into a different pattern, and creates a totally different style…this is transmutation.  This is the new and evolved you.

Life experiences don’t alter you; they change you.  It transmutes you.  Stop spending your precious spiritual currency looking for the old you.  That person has gone and can NEVER return. 

So, moving forward, how you allow that transmutational change to influence your choices is totally up to you.   You can use it as a steppingstone, springboard, precipice, or a turning point.  Or you can use the experience as an abyss in which to bury yourself in, looking for the old you, that is nowhere to be found, because the old you no longer exists. 

Blessings,
Dr. Wendy