Dr Wendy Dearborne


Day 7: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 7 Welcome to day 7 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we start the manifestation process.  Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Review your lists three times daily – morning, noon and night until your manifestation is complete.  Review your desired manifestation list first and then your gratitude list. Let’s Get Started 1: Upon awakening, use your simple breathing technique to connect and set your intentional focus. 2: Review-read and don’t skip anything your desired manifestation list, followed by your gratitude list. 3: At midday (your midday) review your lists again. 4: Before you go to sleep review your lists again.  If you read or watch television before going to sleep, the last thing you do is to read your lists. 5: Do not tell nor share this with anyone.  This […]


Day 6: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 6 Welcome to day 6 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we are reviewing our lists. Once again, take a moment to reconnect with your lists both front and back. Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Look over your list with fresh eyes and remember, withhold any judgment, criticism and negativity.   Remove anything that no longer seems relevant to you.  Add anything that comes to mind. Remember work from authenticity and brutal honesty.  If you add anything new, remember to define, refine and hone and place it in order of preference.  Add or remove anything from your gratitude list also. Let’s Get Started 1: Select a time where you can have 10-15 minutes where you won’t be interrupted. This includes being temporarily unplugged from social media and all electronic devices.  This […]


Day 5: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 5 Welcome to day 5 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we are going to enhance our energetic output by creating a gratitude list.  Once again, take a moment to reconnect with your list. Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Look over your list with fresh eyes and remember, withhold any judgment, criticism and negativity.   Remove anything that no longer seems relevant to you.  Add anything that comes to mind. Remember work from authenticity and brutal honesty.  If you add anything new, remember to define, refine and hone and place it in order of preference. On the back of your completed manifestation sheet, or on a new sheet of paper, write down all the things that you are grateful for in your life. Example, I’m grateful that I learnt to drive […]


Day 4: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 4 Welcome to day 4 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we are going to change things up on our list.    Once again, take a moment to reconnect with your list. Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Look over your list with fresh eyes and remember, withhold any judgment, criticism and negativity.   Remove anything that no longer seems relevant to you.  Add anything that comes to mind. Remember work from authenticity and brutal honesty.  If you add anything new, remember to define, refine and hone it. Get a clean sheet of paper.  In order of preference create a new list from the things and or conditions you want to experience in order of importance. What is it that you want to experience first? Let’s Get Started 1: Select a time where […]


Day 3: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 3 Welcome to day 3 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Today we are going to define, refine and hone our list. Depending on how many things you have on your list you may need to take more timeout to do this, allocate yourself 30 minutes.   Take a moment to reconnect with your list. Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Look over your list with fresh eyes and remember, withhold any judgment, criticism and negativity.   Remove anything that no longer seems relevant to you.  Add anything that comes to mind. Remember work from authenticity and brutal honesty. Now, let’s get specific by defining, refining and honing your list.  As an example on your list you have a car, which is wonderful, however just saying you want a car is very generic.  So […]


Day 2: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Day 2 Welcome to day 2 of Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. This process may appear repetitious. However, there is a method to this seemingly repetitious madness. Take a moment to reconnect with your list. Use your simple breathing technique to set your intention and focus.   Look over your list with fresh eyes.  Withhold any judgment, criticism and negativity.   Remove anything that no longer seems relevant to you.  Add anything that comes to mind. Remember work from authenticity and brutal honesty. If there is nothing you want to add or remove reread your list then put it away.   Let’s Get Started 1: Select a time where you can have 10-15 minutes where you won’t be interrupted. This includes being temporarily unplugged from social media and all electronic devices.  This may mean telling family, friends etc. that you […]


Day 1: Let’s Figure Your Life Out In 7 Days

Welcome to  Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. I’m taking this moment to gently remind you, that you are the one who is responsible for making the choices for what you want to manifest in your life.  Attractioners, it really is as simple as that. I know that choice making isn’t easy.  And I do know from personal experience that random and not so random thoughts can muddy the waters when trying to find clarity.  Mind chatter has a way of creating self-doubt and can leave you wondering if you are worthy of what it is that you want. So to facilitate the process of getting clear on what you want for your life, I’m inviting you to join me in Let’s Figure It Out In 7 Days. Over the next 7 days I want you to commit to […]


How To Stop Struggling With Self Praise And Accept It

Many people don’t realize that their ability to consciously manifest what they want in life is being hampered by their inability to receive and accept praise. You know the “attaboy or attagirl,” that people give when you have accomplished something. The inability to do this for self is a serious one. It has the atomic potential to undermine everything that you want, and wreck everything that you have. The Universal Law of Acceptance speaks to the energy of whether you believe you are worthy and deserving of the thing you have asked the Universe to bring into creation for you. You see, Attractioners, it’s understanding this nuance that makes all the difference in your world. To the Universal Creator, acceptance or non-acceptance is still, acceptance. Once again, you get to choose how you use the universal Law of Acceptance. Your […]


Wow! I Didn’t See That Coming

In order for you to get what you want in life and experience things that leave you feeling whole, capable and complete, happy, accepted, in control, self-empowered, self-inspired and self-motivated, you must understand how the Universal Laws of Attraction work. And then you must use them. I was talking to my hubby, Dee, about this earlier. People condemn others for ____ you fill in the blank, not realizing that this is a form of self-expression…you just don’t say it…you actually become it. And so, when Universal Order is established, and the condemner now becomes the condemned, OMG! they are up in arms. Telling everyone who will listen, “How could this happen to me?  I didn’t see that coming!“ Really! Like really!? How could it not? You see, you can’t hate these people or things over here and not have hate […]


The Hyphen On Your Tombstone

Weaving in and out of the headstones in St Mary’s cemetery located at Harrow-On-The-Hill was something that I did when I wanted to experience peace and quiet found in contemplation, rather than going inward into meditation. There is beautiful scenic tranquility found within that ancient Norman cemetery on the hill.  The walk from our home in West Harrow to the cemetery was several miles. And of course, to get to St Mary’s one had to climb a rather steep incline. While my history is a little sketchy, Wikipedia suggests that the church was built between 1087 – 1094 during the Middle Ages. It was in the late 1800’s that the original cemetery was closed for burials, making way for the newer grounds, in which people are still being laid to rest today. I’m sharing all of this with you to […]