Dr Wendy Dearborne


Perfectionism And Procrastination Have An Important Role To Play In Your Life

Many brilliant dreams and life changing ideas have been killed by the guillotine of procrastination, because they were dressed up in a disguise called perfectionism.  Have I been guilty of this?   Yes, I have experienced the brutality of the ‘lady guillotine’.  With understanding why both have a role in my life, I now strive HARD for procrastination not to be my conscious or unconscious chosen reality, and to see perfectionism for what it really is. 


Self Doubt Has The Ability To Kill Your Dreams And Your Prayers.

Self-doubt will always undermine and topple anything that you are trying to achieve.  And please, do not confuse self-doubt with the expansion of a concept that you’ve already finalized.  A concept that you want to evolve into something new, but you are unsure as to what that looks like to you.  That is not self-doubt.  That is not knowing.  Understand the nuance here.


Why Does The Same Thing Keep Showing Up In My Life?

For the most part, we consciously realize we are reliving the same issue, only experiencing it in a different format. To get a handle on what the issue is showing you, I suggest you give yourself permission to have your emotional outpouring, with a caveat.   Inform yourself that at some point within the next, you fill in the blank, you will address the situation.