Monthly Archives: January 2024


Are You Speaking At, To, Or With?

The ability to communicate effectively is about creating an open-ended dialog, even if you are talking with yourself.  Basically, this means that you create an intrinsic conversation where there is room for authenticity, honest expression, and expansion of conscious awareness. Or, if you will, understanding, learning and growth.  If you are talking at or to others, or yourself, you are not communicating effectively. Communicating effectively is a conversation that takes place absent the judge. There is no judgement about thoughts expressed, just a sense of curiosity.  Also, the conversation with self or others isn’t one sided. And, it definitely isn’t trying to get someone, or yourself to buy into a concept or an ideal that doesn’t resonate within you.  It’s about finding common ground, upon which to build a foundation that you can move forward from. When you talk at, […]


I Didn’t Know Or Didn’t Mean To Isn’t An Excuse

Let’s face it Attractioners, we won’t always do the “right thing.”  Sometimes the wrong thing will appear seemingly unintentional, or seemingly done unknowingly.   And other times wrong will be done intentionally, with laser like precision.  But, whichever it is, you always add your chosen course of action to the content of your life.  I’m not speaking about people’s reaction to what you’ve done.  That’s a whole different ball of wax. I used the word seemingly, because whether you have done something to people, places, and things, unintentionally or unknowingly, you’re still responsible for your actions.  They-Are-Your-Actions!  And those actions are added to the content of your life.   What does that mean, added to the content of my life?  They, your actions or choices become a part of who you are and how you show up within your screen of […]