Yearly Archives: 2024


Nothing Cannot Be Undone!

Good morning Attractioners,  With every experience that I have had, I truly set my intention and attention to learning something from it. Even if that something is I never want to do that again. I’m able to do this with clarity of mind, because I give myself 100%, total permission to experience every ounce of emotion that I’m feeling.  I ride that wave.  And I run that gauntlet.  I don’t deny myself my expression.  And neither do I spend time judging my emotional outpourings.  That doesn’t mean that I actively choose to play the blame game, or the if I wouldha, shouldha, couldha mind game, even when those emotions rear their head.  And they do.  I don’t judge myself for that, but I do consciously exercise my right to choose what I do with my emotions, based on how I […]


Why Look Outside of Self For Answers

We spend a lot of time looking externally for what we think we want. That’s not to imply that you don’t know what you want, because without a doubt you do. And you want to know how you can tell this? Because when you get what you wanted, it’s spot on, or it’s not quite right, or you weren’t satisfied. And or the feeling was totally and utterly anticlimactic. You can’t begin the search for what you want to manifest into your life by looking for it outside of self. Your life is an inside realization with an external manifestation. And no, this isn’t an oxymoron. It’s an immutable God given fact. I can hear you say, “I know what I don’t want. But I don’t know what I do want.” Flip the script on what you don’t want, and […]


Are You Speaking At, To, Or With?

The ability to communicate effectively is about creating an open-ended dialog, even if you are talking with yourself.  Basically, this means that you create an intrinsic conversation where there is room for authenticity, honest expression, and expansion of conscious awareness. Or, if you will, understanding, learning and growth.  If you are talking at or to others, or yourself, you are not communicating effectively. Communicating effectively is a conversation that takes place absent the judge. There is no judgement about thoughts expressed, just a sense of curiosity.  Also, the conversation with self or others isn’t one sided. And, it definitely isn’t trying to get someone, or yourself to buy into a concept or an ideal that doesn’t resonate within you.  It’s about finding common ground, upon which to build a foundation that you can move forward from. When you talk at, […]


I Didn’t Know Or Didn’t Mean To Isn’t An Excuse

Let’s face it Attractioners, we won’t always do the “right thing.”  Sometimes the wrong thing will appear seemingly unintentional, or seemingly done unknowingly.   And other times wrong will be done intentionally, with laser like precision.  But, whichever it is, you always add your chosen course of action to the content of your life.  I’m not speaking about people’s reaction to what you’ve done.  That’s a whole different ball of wax. I used the word seemingly, because whether you have done something to people, places, and things, unintentionally or unknowingly, you’re still responsible for your actions.  They-Are-Your-Actions!  And those actions are added to the content of your life.   What does that mean, added to the content of my life?  They, your actions or choices become a part of who you are and how you show up within your screen of […]