Monthly Archives: January 2023


Over Here And Over There The Impact 

I was talking to someone recently and during the conversation, they were speaking about how they disliked, no it was beyond that, it was how they hated this person over here who we’ll call person X.   They spoke passionately, at length and in detail about what’s wrong with person X.  They basically said that the person needs to be dead, because they are taking up valuable space and air.  They then went on to speak about another person who we’ll call person Y.  They spoke of them in warm, glowing compassionate terms.  They went on to say that they know Y is probably worse than X.  But they just couldn’t even stand to look at person X.   This left me feeling a tad baffled.  So, I did what I do best.  I listened.  Then asked a couple of questions for […]


Choosing To Actively Look For The Good 

There is a saying that we Londoners have, “sometimes, I just need a good ol’ swear-up”. Or, another saying that we Jamaicans have is, “mi jus haffi cuss tu bad wod”. Given that both are my heritage, both worked well for me in this scenario. I decided to clipper cut my hair. While I can still make magic happen with a pair of shears and a comb, clipper cutting was never really my forte. With that in mind, picture this.  I switched my clippers on, and I happily, and confidently cut my hair, magically pretending that clipper cutting IS my forte.  All the while living in the moment of, of faking it until you make it.  My hair cut turned out par for the course and I was happy with it. I finished up, swept up, sanitized my implements, and […]


God Needs To Know What You Want

I know that you have heard me say this many times and in many different ways, God doesn’t make choices for you.  Only you can do that!  God the Universal Creator of ALL Things will present you with different opportunities, and endless possibilities that are all designed to support you in manifesting what it is that you say you want.   You may even experience getting a spiritual nudge in the “right” direction.  But even with that, you have to walk the walk, that you are talking. Ironically, once you start your walk, God will be walking with you every step of the way.  And if you fall or if you falter, God will support you in getting back on track, if that is your desired choice.  As I have told countless people.  God has never allowed you to drop, even […]