Daily Archives: March 30, 2022


Which Eyes Are You Using?

You, like me and many others have been taught that seeing is believing and as a result of this off kilter teaching, you try to manifest and live your life in this way.  And you continue to do so even though time after time, after time, you’re shown categorically that this way of manifesting doesn’t work.   It can’t work.  It won’t work simply because your life is an internal manifestation with an external expression.  Your life is always lived internally first and manifested or brought into form second.     Consciously manifesting is intrinsic work that is carried out internally, first.  And when the desired manifestation moves into form, or becomes tangible, it then becomes extrinsic work that can only be carried out externally.  This is also true of unconscious manifesting too. Takeaway:  Perhaps we need to take the phase seeing […]


Nine Years Later And I Still Don’t Feel The Need To Ask Why?

WHY? The Taboo Word In Coaching! As a coach, intrinsic or otherwise sometimes to get to the heart of the matter you just have to ask that age-old loaded question “why.”  There are several different coaching styles that I have studied and they all say the same thing, “never ask a client why” as it puts the client on the defensive and of course shuts them down, effectively cutting communication, trust and new and forward thinking. As a spiritual counselor, the word “why” was used, not frequently, but used none-the-less at points during a session.  You can imagine during my training as a coach, and I freely admit that at first it was hard…very hard not to use and ask that three-letter word…WHY!   Eventually I got it.  I intellectualized it before I realized it and could integrate it into my world. […]