I’m Sorry But; Isn’t An Apology It’s An Accusation
What happens when we don’t communicate effectively there is disintegration and undermining of understanding, which leads to irrational behavior. When cooler heads prevail or hindsight is the new view finder lens an apology can be made. This is where it can and many times does go radically wrong again. One of the most important things that any couple can do when apologizing is OWN their feelings. This isn’t even about owning up to what you or they have or have not done. Let’s face it; for the most part, all parties are aware of what’s gone on. It’s not like it’s a surprise. Let’s dissect it this way. When someone says “I’m really sorry that I shouted like that, but, you always make me so mad!” There are three things that are fundamentally wrong with that apology. Shifting the blame […]
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