You cannot pull yourself into two opposing directions and expect to arrive at a set destination. That’s never gonna happen. Focusing on what you want, verses focusing on what you don’t want, will get you your desired manifestation.

Ironically, many people’s primary focus stays on what they don’t want, in conjunction with what they do want. You cannot split your attention and intention between these two thought processes. You won’t get anywhere.  In fact, you may keep on manifesting the thing that you say that you don’t want.

You already know at an intimate level what you don’t want for your life.  You’re currently living and enmeshed with the circumstances surrounding that situation. So another of my golden questions is simply this, what are you wanting for you in this moment, regarding moving past this situation?

Answering this question authentically, without being constricted by external influences like peer pressure, duty, societal norms etc. will give you the foundation of an intrinsic road map to support you on your journey.  Answering this question brings clarity, which allows you to make choices in the best interest of self.

So Attractioners, get clear on what you are wanting and focus your energies there.

Blessings,
Dr. Wendy Dearborne