It’s so easy to label a situation that didn’t turn out the way in which you thought it would, needed it to, or wanted it to, negatively. And so, you talk about the results and everything leading up to that point, and after it, in a way that doesn’t foster positivity in your life.

There are multiple reasons for this, including, but not limited to you not having clarity around what you want, which I speak on frequently.  But for now, let’s consider this factor; there is a process that is required for The Universal Creator to move energy into and out of tangible form. What I mean by this is there are specific criteria that must be in place and or fulfilled by you in order for your prayer, affirmation etc. to be answered.  In other words, there is a process of Universal Order to any manifestation. 

The Universal Order for manifesting that which you have asked for, LITERALLY, means that you must be ready for it on all levels.  Emotionally, physically, psychologically, consciously and subconsciously.   A hard truth is that many of the things that we ask for, we really are not ready for. Yes, you heard me correctly.  You are not ready for the thing that you say you want to experience in your life. Again, you must be ready on all levels.   

And don’t get it twisted, knowing and asking for what you want to experience in your life, doesn’t always mean that you are ready for it.  And that my dear Attractioners is a simple immutable truth. It is Law!  And a truth that many of you have experienced, and will continue to experience.

If you have ever said to yourself, using the wisdom of hindsight, “if I had gotten my wish for, ‘you fill in the blank’, I wouldn’t have been ready for it!”  It doesn’t mean that what you are wanting isn’t right for you, it just means that the timing isn’t right for the manifestation.

So, what happens in between the time that you ask for what you want and the time that your manifestation or your prayer is answered?  A lot of things happen. Sometimes this process spans hours, days, weeks, months and even years.  Again, you must be ready on all levels. During that time, you experience what appears to be on the surface the total antithesis of what you want to happen. 

Unfortunately, because those experiences are totally opposite to what you want, they are often misconstrued as failures and or setbacks.  This can create a whole new tangential dynamic that then needs to be addressed.  The Universal Creator, known to me as The God Within, is always establishing order in our lives.  And it’s not always warm and fuzzy!

For those of you who are familiar with my work, you know that I don’t believe in failure or setbacks.  I do recognize that something didn’t work, or that something went wrong.  I also acknowledge that what is happening is not what I want. And do I climb on an emotional rollercoaster, venting, crying etc.?  Yes, I do.  However, I also know that by choosing to change how I view the situation, I can either become a victim of my circumstance (staying on the rollercoaster), or a victor by controlling what I do next.

Which brings me back to my point.  There is no such thing as failure or a setback.  Whatever happens provides you with much needed feedback.  And this feedback, if you choose to view it that way, provides you with invaluable information.   The information that you can extract from the situation will support you in creating a plan of action to map out what your next step will be.  The perceived failures or setbacks in reality are creating a strong and stable foundation that is required for your desired manifestation or the answer to your prayer to come into tangible form.

Failure in life isn’t a setback; it’s providing you with feedback that creates a stable platform on which you can build.