Attractioners,

It’s imperative to understand the nuance between, “a hand-up or a handout.”  While both have the appearance of supporting you in achieving your dreams, desires, goals etc., one celebrates your independence, and the other creates dependence.

Before you accept help from anyone, and I do mean anyone, understand the type of strings that may bind you to the helping hand that has been extended to you. 

Please, don’t be misguided into believing that this doesn’t pertain to your family and close friends too, because it does.  And Attractioners, don’t spend your emotional and mental real estate on taking my statement as a negative, because it’s not.   Take this for the invaluable insight that it is worth.  Take it as a Devine immutable fact, that just is.

And so, moving forward, you get to empower yourself by asking self, “is the help being offered to me, a hand-up or a handout?”  You then get to choose what it is that you want to do with the hand that is being extended to you.

Never forget, your life is created one choice at a time!  So, use the power of your conscious choice to create the life you say you want to live.

Blessings,
Dr. Wendy