Understanding Choice


Why Look Outside of Self For Answers

We spend a lot of time looking externally for what we think we want. That’s not to imply that you don’t know what you want, because without a doubt you do. And you want to know how you can tell this? Because when you get what you wanted, it’s spot on, or it’s not quite right, or you weren’t satisfied. And or the feeling was totally and utterly anticlimactic. You can’t begin the search for what you want to manifest into your life by looking for it outside of self. Your life is an inside realization with an external manifestation. And no, this isn’t an oxymoron. It’s an immutable God given fact. I can hear you say, “I know what I don’t want. But I don’t know what I do want.” Flip the script on what you don’t want, and […]


I Didn’t Know Or Didn’t Mean To Isn’t An Excuse

Let’s face it Attractioners, we won’t always do the “right thing.”  Sometimes the wrong thing will appear seemingly unintentional, or seemingly done unknowingly.   And other times wrong will be done intentionally, with laser like precision.  But, whichever it is, you always add your chosen course of action to the content of your life.  I’m not speaking about people’s reaction to what you’ve done.  That’s a whole different ball of wax. I used the word seemingly, because whether you have done something to people, places, and things, unintentionally or unknowingly, you’re still responsible for your actions.  They-Are-Your-Actions!  And those actions are added to the content of your life.   What does that mean, added to the content of my life?  They, your actions or choices become a part of who you are and how you show up within your screen of […]


Does What You Think Mirror Your Life?

It is an immutable governing truth that our life has always been, and always will be, an inside job with an external manifestation.  Meaning; what you think about with desire, talk about incessantly, imagine with longing, passion and knowing etc., is what will manifest into your life.  Where you choose to live within your mind and your heart is how you live your life.


This Sums It Up!

This amazing video came across my feed today. And Attractioners, I felt compelled to share it with you. The narrator states at the end of this video, “thank you for being on this journey with me.” I want you to know that I truly do thank each and everyone of you, from the depths of my soul, for being a part of my purpose filled life. Blessings to you and yours. Dr. Wenz


Over Here And Over There The Impact 

I was talking to someone recently and during the conversation, they were speaking about how they disliked, no it was beyond that, it was how they hated this person over here who we’ll call person X.   They spoke passionately, at length and in detail about what’s wrong with person X.  They basically said that the person needs to be dead, because they are taking up valuable space and air.  They then went on to speak about another person who we’ll call person Y.  They spoke of them in warm, glowing compassionate terms.  They went on to say that they know Y is probably worse than X.  But they just couldn’t even stand to look at person X.   This left me feeling a tad baffled.  So, I did what I do best.  I listened.  Then asked a couple of questions for […]


Every Obstacle Leads Somewhere

Good morning Attractioners, Life really is all about your perception of it, and then what you choose to do with that thought process.  No matter what happens, try to think in terms of life happening for you, verses life happening to you.  That way of thinking isn’t easy by any stretch of the imagination.  And to get to that point can sometimes take years. Yet, this way of thinking will support you to eventually recognize that every obstacle in your way, has been established for you, by you, to set you on the correct pathway. it’s not easy to see new possibilities when you are experiencing mental, emotional, and physical pain. But, they are there, waiting for you to claim them, even if you are unable to see them…yet. Claim your new possibility today!


Wanting Someone To Change Won’t Make It Happen

Most don’t realize that the change they are wanting to see in that person must start with themselves.  Or put another way, the change you want to see must first start with you.  And yes, I can hear you saying, “Wait!  What!  I’m not the one with the problem.”  Okay, I’ll bite.  You don’t have the behavioral issue, but you do have a problem with “their” behavior.  This is what I call understanding the nuances of life.