Are You Putting Up & Shutting Up To Get Through Your Life?

Are you putting up and shutting up just to make it through another day?  If this is true for you then you need to map out your life.  Do you have a map of your life’s journey? If you don’t, you should.  Without a map you will undoubtedly find yourself in a place where you don’t want to be. Married to someone you shouldn’t be, working in a job you shouldn’t be, living beyond your means when you shouldn’t be, experiencing ill-health when you shouldn’t be and generally unhappy with the life that you have lived and are living.  Are you putting up and shutting up? Many people approach life with the attitude that it will miraculously unfold with their best interests at heart. For those of you who understand the workings of the Universal Laws of Attraction or God’s […]

Are You Living In Your NOW?

You’ve heard that old adage, strike while the iron is hot.  That’s because when the iron cools you will be unable to form it into what you want.  You will have to conform to it.  The time is N.O.W!  This is what life is all about, being in and realizing your N.O.W.  We go through life not recognizing the power of N.O.W!  The most powerful thing in your life at any given time is YOU and being in the present and acting N.O.W! As a choice expert, I love acronyms. I feel that word association can make for a powerful memory recall that supports us in taking inspired action.   N.O.W is an acronym I use to illustrate to clients that no matter what has gone on or going on in their lives, there is always something positive to be learned […]

Why Can’t I Manifest What I Want?

It’s helpful having an understanding of how the Universal Laws of Attraction work together, whether you are wanting to use them consciously or not. The Laws of Attraction are natural Laws, Spiritual Laws, God’s Laws or your chosen deity’s Laws. These Laws are immutable and exacting by nature.  These two facts, immutable and exacting, say it all when it comes to the Universal Laws and how things unfold in our lives.   They, the Laws, exhibit the true meaning of detached involvement.  You see, the Laws are unemotional, unbiased and detached.  The Laws careless about gender, race, age, finances, good, bad, infirmities, diseases, disorders and believe it or not our spiritual or religious beliefs.  And yet, each Law individually and collectively are very, very much involved in our lives. The Laws have one function and one function only.  To take the […]

Are You Prepared To Slam Dunk Your Accomplishments This Week?

Using the Laws of Attraction takes action. #Attractioners, as you prepare for the coming week, what are you wanting to accomplish? Are you prepared to slam dunk “it” this week?  It’s important to get your thoughts organized in your mind.  Once you’ve decided what you want to accomplish don’t just think about it…write it down. There is power in reading your written word. That power activates the Universal Law of Imagination.  It doesn’t matter what you write it down on. It can be toilet paper, tissue paper, scrap paper, trash bag, your day planner or notes on your iPhone; you get my drift. Just write it down. Next, check in with yourself and your internal dialog. Are you asking yourself the right types of questions?  Is your internal dialog forward thinking leading to forward movement? Again, the questions and or your […]

God Doesn’t Test You

My mother had a saying whenever anything was going wrong, “that this is my cross and trial.”  The cross being something that you have to bear, carry or make your way through. And the trial could possibly be seen as the determination of guilt or innocence.  However, in this instance we are speaking of “trial” as an attempt or effort to do something or achieve a particular goal. We are in essence taking experimental action in order to achieve a desired result. God doesn’t test us.  Yet, we feel, that when we are going through trials and tribulations, which have all come about, because of the choices we have made, that we are being tested by God.  It matters not whether a choice has been made consciously or unconsciously.  It’s still a choice that you have made and the result […]

Who Are You: The Laws of Attraction In Action

Attractioners, two days ago, I asked you the question, “Do you feel that you know yourself better than anyone else does?” The overwhelming answer was “yes!” so let me ask you this, “Is your life currently reflecting back to you your belief that you know yourself better than anyone else does?”  By that I mean, are you manifesting what you want for your life IN THE WAY in which you want it? If the answer is yes, then congratulations Attractioners!  That is totally awesome.  You ROCK!! Now let’s take that momentum a little deeper.  “What does it look like or feel like to take what you know about self and use that to manifest, with conscious awareness, what you are wanting for your life in this moment?”  LOL! Yup, that was a long question, I know, but an important one.  […]

Stand Your Ground: The Laws of Attraction In Action

I came across this blog I had written a few years ago and ironically, it’s in total sync with today’s podcast, “How well do you know yourself?” I was browsing the isles of my favorite clothing stores.  In fact, today is my designated, thank you for being you Wendy and all that you do for you day.  And for that I’m giving back to myself day.  What this translates to is I’m going to shop till I drop for whatever I want.   So, I’m browsing the isles looking at some, hmm, how do I say this?  Really uuuugly stuff and I can’t but help over hear the conversation between the extremely peppy sales assistant and a new customer to the store. The assistant is seriously digging through the shirt isle.  Ladies, you know the one I mean, the side wall […]

Stop Trying To Fix Them

One of the most oppressive things that you can do to yourself is own someone else’s crap! And this is what you may find yourself doing on a regular basis; by trying to fix other people’s crappy life situations. And as a result you wind up in part ownership of the negativity that is going on in their lives.   For a variety of reasons you may do this, but the main one is that we all think, based on our past experiences, wisdom, knowledge, skill etc that we can fix it.  That is fix whatever has gone wrong with the “fixee’s”  life. The irony here is that I can’t, you can’t, we can’t.  You cannot fix a single thing pertaining to someone else. They have to “fix it” for themselves. Good God, most of us are challenged with straightening our […]

With You All Things Are Possible

Today’s meme is a nuance to be sure, and a powerful one at that. At first glance your automatic response to the Real Talk meme may be, “Duh! Well that’s kinda obvious.” My suggestion is to look beyond the obvious and ask the questions, “What is this showing me? What does this mean for my life and the things I want? What happens when I AM consciously working with me?” So if nothing is possible without you, what is possible with you? This morning I heard a guest speaker on a podcast state that talking to yourself isn’t helpful. I had to disagree. I believe that boils down to what you are discussing with yourself. Self talk that takes you beyond where you are at in this moment to engage in the realism of where you are wanting to be […]

Starting My Life Over Again

When your life comes to a grinding halt it’s usually associated with the loss of someone or something.  The feelings of loss could be as a result of a death, a divorce, a drifting away.  Out growing people, places and things or the thing that fit so perfectly before is no longer a good fit.  Whatever the cause your reaction is one in which you have experienced loss.   In the pain of that loss you have reacted in a way that it has shut you off or shut you down. The fact that you are still breathing means that there is still life left in you, and although you may be down you are not out.  As long as you are physically breathing, life will gather momentum and demand that you consciously participate in the direction you want to go in.  […]