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How Badly Do You Want It?

A personal favorite of mine.  This story is a powerful metaphor for our lives and how we choose to live it! Many say that they want this or that and lament over what they get. But how badly do you want what you say you want? Some of you may know this story very well.  Some may have never heard it before. Whichever category you fall into, I ask that you embrace it with new or fresh eyes.  Look at it as a metaphor that can change your life should you choose to see it that way. An influential and wise old sage lived on the side of a mountain near a lake. It was common practice for the people of the village to seek his advice. The old man spent many hours sitting in front of his small hut, […]


Choose Your Victimology

This morning as I watched the glorious sunrise, I had an ah-ha moment. As dirty as my windows are, and they are in need of a serious window cleaning, the sunlight always finds a way to shine through. I thought to myself, no matter my external state of being, the Universal Light of God will always shine inside of me, because that’s where my light resides. Because I AM one with God. Illumination is an amazing thing. Just like the power of choice, “The Light” sheds light on possibilities, illuminating or shining brightly on pathways that make the potential for our desired realizations or manifestations real! We come here into this life with all that we need to live our purpose. Everything that has and is happening in life is happening “for us” and not to us. We get to […]


What Is It That You Desire For Your Life?

Everyone is on his or her own journey.  Each person in this dimension, we call earth is experiencing their “personal” “soulution” or if you like, evolution.  You are a pure expression of your energetic Universal unique frequency.  Each of us have our very own vibrational frequency.  It’s yours and yours alone.  It can never be replicated and therefore never duplicated.  It can never be changed, so nothing can be added to it and nothing can be taken away from it.  For it, your vibrational frequency, is all that there is and all that there ever will be.  You are ONE with the source.  Your energetic frequency moves into form and out of form, creating and manifesting conscious and unconscious realities.   It can be interrupted as it flows with intention born of attention on the things desired.  But no one, not […]


What Are Your Intention Toward You In 2018?

Where are you in relation to your existence?  That’s a deep question, which requires deep penetrative thought.   I’m going to ask you that question in another way.  What is the one word that sums up what you are wanting for 2018?  And if YOU haven’t given it any thought, my personal and professional opinion, as a choice expert, is that YOU MUST.  It’s not often that I tell people what they should do.  After all, everyone knows intrinsically what it is that they are wanting. Yet, I stand behind my statement.  If YOU haven’t given what you are wanting for 2018 any thought, my personal and professional opinion, as a choice expert, is that YOU MUST.  Why?  Simply put, your life is moving in a forward direction.  This is whether you choose to actively participate with conscious awareness of your […]


Why Worry! It Can’t Help You Anyway.

Earlier today I was researching on the Universal Laws of Abundance for my Wednesday podcast and for the lecture I’m giving tomorrow. Looking through my spiritual text and scriptures, I came across this and felt compelled to share, because many of us do exactly this. Matthew 6:27 Who of you, by worrying, can add a single hour to his lifespan? Worrying is futile and a waste of your precious time and energy. Worrying sends you into a wash cycle that does not rinse, spin and dry. It just keeps washing and washing and washing. It’s like listening to the same news over and over again. It doesn’t alter the facts or situations. Worrying creates more hurdles and obstacles for you to get over. Once you experience that initial rush of fear based adrenaline. You know, the OMG PANIC…give yourself time […]


Do I Need To Adjust The Dial On My Self-Talk?

If your life has spun out of control or you are currently spiraling out of control and or your life is filled with an over abundance of drama or you are just plain and simply out of whack, you may want to consider adjusting the dial on your “self talk.” Now, Self Talk is that “seemingly” inane endless chatter that goes on and on inside our heads, 24/7…even when we are asleep.  It’s the way in which we communicate with ourselves about what’s going on in our internal and external worlds.  It’s the conversations and visualizations that we all have with our permanent resident “me, myself & I”. You see, yourself talk creates the balance in your life.  You cannot change people places and things, but you do have control over how you choose to think, visualize and respond. It’s […]


Are You Putting Up & Shutting Up To Get Through Your Life?

Are you putting up and shutting up just to make it through another day?  If this is true for you then you need to map out your life.  Do you have a map of your life’s journey? If you don’t, you should.  Without a map you will undoubtedly find yourself in a place where you don’t want to be. Married to someone you shouldn’t be, working in a job you shouldn’t be, living beyond your means when you shouldn’t be, experiencing ill-health when you shouldn’t be and generally unhappy with the life that you have lived and are living.  Are you putting up and shutting up? Many people approach life with the attitude that it will miraculously unfold with their best interests at heart. For those of you who understand the workings of the Universal Laws of Attraction or God’s […]


Are You Living In Your NOW?

You’ve heard that old adage, strike while the iron is hot.  That’s because when the iron cools you will be unable to form it into what you want.  You will have to conform to it.  The time is N.O.W!  This is what life is all about, being in and realizing your N.O.W.  We go through life not recognizing the power of N.O.W!  The most powerful thing in your life at any given time is YOU and being in the present and acting N.O.W! As a choice expert, I love acronyms. I feel that word association can make for a powerful memory recall that supports us in taking inspired action.   N.O.W is an acronym I use to illustrate to clients that no matter what has gone on or going on in their lives, there is always something positive to be learned […]


Why Can’t I Manifest What I Want?

It’s helpful having an understanding of how the Universal Laws of Attraction work together, whether you are wanting to use them consciously or not. The Laws of Attraction are natural Laws, Spiritual Laws, God’s Laws or your chosen deity’s Laws. These Laws are immutable and exacting by nature.  These two facts, immutable and exacting, say it all when it comes to the Universal Laws and how things unfold in our lives.   They, the Laws, exhibit the true meaning of detached involvement.  You see, the Laws are unemotional, unbiased and detached.  The Laws careless about gender, race, age, finances, good, bad, infirmities, diseases, disorders and believe it or not our spiritual or religious beliefs.  And yet, each Law individually and collectively are very, very much involved in our lives. The Laws have one function and one function only.  To take the […]